Tuesday, February 28, 2012

The ending of this journey


Well, here we are and it’s the end of the 5 month journey that I have been blogging about. Having said that, I guess it’s time to let the cat out of the bag as to what this whole 5 month journey was all about and what it was for. When I started it, I was attempting to go from 177 lbs down to 160 lbs. Why try and lose 17 lbs in 5 months? Because that would have been exactly 150 lbs lost since the date of my surgery, and would have been a total of 200 lbs lost since I started even thinking about having my surgery.I wanted to see if I could in fact accomplish that. 
So how did I do? Well, to be honest, I gained 7 lbs throughout the whole 5 months. I tried cardio, strict diet, meal plans, etc etc. No matter what I tried, my body just didn't want to let go of the unwanted 17 lbs. I finally stopped being so hard nosed about losing the weight, and changed my mindset to trying to tone up. However, I truly think that the added extra weight is muscle as I have been training for my next adventure, and I’ve been training hard, and I haven’t been doing any cardio either. 
This expirience has been amazing. I've learned quite a bit, done a lot of reading, and asking questions of people, and seeing what I'm truly capable of doing. I will definately be using a lot of what I've learned as a foundation for myself for years to come. I only hope that I will be able to pass on my knowledge to others when the time comes up for it.
However, during these past 5 months, I have gained not only in the gym, but as a person too. I have had the honor and pleasure of getting to know some very wonderful people, and get re-acquainted with old friends from my youth.  I’ve been blessed by a few people who have made wonderful transitions in their life and have chosen to live a healthier lifestyle. To say that I am proud of them for their successes would be such an understatement. They have pushed themselves harder than they imagined they could, or ever dreamed of, and they are seeing the benefits from doing so. The mere fact and notion that they have chosen to share their successes and trials with me is very humbling and appreciated.
These people are just some of the few reasons that I decided to create the Lazarus page on Facebook. Some of you are familiar with why I made the page, and what it’s for. If you are unsure, you can either contact me or go look at it for yourself. Also, I am working on building a website for the whole Lazarus project as well. When that is all accomplished, I will be making it known.
About mid December this past year, as I was working out in the gym, I came up with some major goals and plans for this year. One of them is to be able to help others more, and try to inspire them and motivate them to better their own lives to live a healthier lifestyle. If THEY so want it. As an obese and out of shape individual for most of my life, I know how I felt when people would automatically offer suggestions when it was unsolicited on how I could be skinnier. Understanding what that feeling and emotion is like, I decided right then and there, that I would make a conscious effort to not do that to others. However, if people ask me questions, I will do everything I can to answer them honestly and truthfully, and if I didn’t know, I would make every effort to find out.
Another goal/plan that I came up for this year is to get bigger. Not only in muscle, but in helping spread the word of companies that have helped me be so successful during my journey. Whether it was right before/ right after my surgery up to current day or whether I started to use / believe in a particular product just a few short days ago. The companies that have truly helped me out to get where not only I am now, but where I want to be by the end of this year are Nutrex Research, FatGripz, and Savage Sports Performance.  
My whole reasoning why I did what I did, have done what I have done, and do what I continue to do and try to do on a daily basis is to show people that there is hope.  That there is a way to better your life health wise and prove to them that anything and everything is possible. You just have to put the work in and go get it. These companies have just helped push me further than I ever thought possible.
Nutrex Research will always be given notice from me for a lot of my success in my weight loss. I’ve said this time and time again, YES I did have Gastric Bypass Surgery. YES I still would have lost weight regardless. HOWEVER, I know in my heart that not only do the Nutrex products help push me further in my weight loss, escalated it really, but they have also helped me supplement my daily protein needs that I could not have otherwise consumed due largely in part because of my surgery. Mr. David Waggoner is the pilot of Nutrex’s Facebook fan page.  He is an amazing representative of and for Nutrex. In my opinion, and from what I’ve seen, his job is very taxing, and extremely time consuming. Not only is he communicating with the fans of Nutrex, and answering their questions about the products, but he is also doing give-aways EVERY DAY, except for on Sunday's. To whit, that is ok, because even God himself rested on Sunday. On top of all of that, he also is doing his normal workload for his job in the office that he has to deal with, plus replying to emails, plus getting the free products out to the fans that have won, plus getting his gym time in, quietly motivating others with motivational images or sayings, and on and on. I often wonder how he ever has time to eat, let alone take care of any other business. I know for a fact that because of the Nutrex products that I use, they will be instrumental in fueling the inner fire to accomplish my 2 major plans for this year. Just as they have been for over the past 3 years now. So to you Mr. Nutrex guy, I say thank you for starting where I am at now in my knowledge of Nutrex products all because of a Hemo Rage UC Orange Creamation give-away.
FatGripz is a product that is unparalleled in design, effectiveness, and feasibility. Franco and Matt not only work on promoting their product, but they do give aways as well. One thing that I have especially noticed is that they don’t try and sell the product. They let other customers who daily; DAILY, post comments about their appreciation of the product and its effectiveness, speak for the product. To me, they are using the “ hey, don’t take our word for it, see what others have to say about it “ thought. The product truly does speak for itself. I will admit, I was skeptical at first when I got mine back at the end of December. Then I used them. All Skepticism was gone, and I was overtaken with belief and pain. Yes, I hurt for the first few days after using these, but that is what happens when you use muscles you didn’t even realize you had. So to Franco and Matt, thank you as well for replying to my emails, my thoughts, my comments, and allowing me to post a video review of the product.
Now we have Savage Sports Performance. Now, I am still newly associated with these wonderful people. They offer a wide variety of services of training ranging from new to the gym all the way to training specialized towards Strongman competitions. They are both motivationally driven and mentally tough people. However, they are extremely kind hearted. They revel in the success of others. I am so thankful to my good friend Chris Pluhacek for mentioning them and suggesting this business to his Iron Spartan nation. It is my prayer that others will realize and UTILIZE this business.
There have been so many people that have been the backbone of the support that has been given towards me throughout this entire journey. Not only these past 5 months, but these past 2 years as well. I honestly think I could do a whole blog just dedicated to nothing but naming all of those that have been so instrumental as a voice of support and strength that have helped push me. My wife is and has to be first and foremost. She has to deal with my everyday moans and groans, my dietary gripes, and other complaints that I have. But she has also been there in my successes and my happy moments.  Next would have to be an individual I'd consider a dear friend, mentor, and whom I’d call my trainer. Chris Pluhacek. He’s been there to offer advice, suggestions, critiques and words of encouragement, and he pushes me that extra bit because he knows it’s what I need, and that I can do it. Thank you Chris. Forever I am in your debt. I also want to give an added extra thank you to David Waggoner for his support and strength as a friend on a personal level, not just a professional level. Next would have to be a few friends from our high school days. Cimmaron, Jennifer, Selena, Kelly, Christina, Tony, and Gaby.  These friends have been there, supporting me with words of encouragment day in and day out. How could I ever think to not thank them? Now, I would  be ungrateful if I didn’t take a moment to mention Phil Sandeen, Denise Cechini, and Brian Hendricks. These 3 people are just absolutely amazing. They are diamonds in the rough. Precious metals unfounded in the humdrum of the daily grind. Thank you for being there.
I know I have thanked these people a million times over, and I’ll continue to thank each of these people a million times more. Without these individuals, and many others, I would never have achieved the success that I have gained thus far, and continue to gain.
So, what’s in store now that this 5 month journey is over? Well, I have 2 major plans for this year. One of them I will tell you about, the other, well I'm just not ready to let the cat out of the bag on that one yet. So, the first one is I have a goal to accomplish a 300/300/300 this year. A 300 lb bench press, a 300 lb deadlift, and a 300 lb squat. The second plan is more so a journey than a plan. It's a goal. It's a journey with a new path that I have yet to pave, but many others have paved before me. The training is going to be intense. The training is not going to be easy, but the rewards will be monumental; at least to me they will be.
As I stated earlier in this blog, I came up with an idea this past December that I wanted to go bigger. In so doing, and in order to accomplish that, I know that I must surround myself around those that have the same kind of goals in life that I have, and that I need to learn from them, and then get to work. I feel that I am on the correct path thus far in doing so.
In closing, I want to leave each and everyone of you with the idea to do the same for yourself. Surround yourself around people who help you to want to better yourself. If you have people who promote negativity or drama, either control their influence in your life, or just simply remove them from your life.  Don’t let people hold you back from bettering your life. We each deserve better than that.
I love each and everyone of you, and each of you have and play an influential part in my life, whether you know it or not.